1. Good manners - I’m sorry but no it’s not old fashion to be a gentleman. It just cannot happen. Well, might be there are some exceptions in that too, but for sure most of the women won’t get mad if you are mindful, interesting, confident and funny instead of arrogant, insolent and selfish or boring, shy and clumsy. There is no way to go wrong if you got style, if you hold hands gentle while walking and show her you know how to treat her like the lady she is, not because of her fancy dress or make-up, but because you like her naturally. No matter for how long your plans are going with that woman, don’t hesitate to show her your best part and behaviour. She just cannot be upset if you open the door every time giving her a hand. It would be fantastic if you can express your desire with elegance. When you want to make a compliment don’t use a phrase known by heart, say it honestly. Remember to be gentleman is not about acting something you’re not or to attitudinize. It should be an intuitive way to show somebody is special for you.
2. Jealousy! –I know, you just cannot help it, you want to protect her that’s way you are checking her e-mail, sms, last calls, plans for the week, etc. It is time to stop and understand it’s about trust. Don’t you believe her, why do you think she is with you if she don’t love you? Be more confident and relax, she do love you and the only problem is your jealousy. Your half knows you’re very careful but show her that wonderful virtue in any other way but that one! Jealousy is killing slowly everything between you. Every time when you feel it’s getting out of control just do something to remind you important is that woman for you and how painful it would be if you lose her. And instead of getting angry and start a fight, kiss her, wish her a nice day/evening or whatever she is going just let her go with smile and desire to get back to you sooner, not disappointed, mad and desperate. Your lady is a flower and she needs air, to breathe freely, not to beg for a permission to live, love her, support her and enjoy your life with her calmly!
3. Respect - Very important and pretty hard to get realized. But basically is simple only two things: don’t be jealous and the second one – remember like you want to keep your privacy she needs the same too.
5. Apology – Everyone can make a mistake, of course. But don’t be shy, you cannot deny you would love to hear “I am terribly sorry! You were right!” – Beatific words you can hear them all the time “I love you honey, it was my fault, please forgive me!” And again of course you don’t mind to forgive lavishly, because she knows how to convince you, pleasurably... So, my dear be good and don’t forget to return the favour and apology every time you did it wrong, but honestly and assiduously, let her enjoy the sweet trembling in your voice, do your best to receive a forgiveness for your remorse.
6. Awesome – If you do insist you are so remarkable, don’t miss to keep in fit. If you have some reproof to your beloved first make sure there is no speckle on you and because of your supremacy she hasn't said anything. Otherwise keep on moving, try to reach the perfection and be the leading reason for her to become more and more beautiful every day.
7. Good listener – It’s always in vogue. Ok, very often is very hard to follow women’s thought, how about understanding them, but at least you can try to do it. When there is something you don’t get better ask her, don’t overanalyzed or ignore her words. She is the one that can explain everything and if she wants to share something with you and it seems mixed-up, talk to her. Don’t put it away and leave her lead a monologue. If the subject is a gossip or something else that is a really needless to discuss then you have all the rights to switch the conversation gently to a new direction, something more satisfying. Use your imagination!
8. Do NOT take her for granted! – In one moment you’re thankful to your fortune you’ve met you better half, next one you easily forget how lucky you are, forget to call you will be late, you get mad because your favourite shirt is not wash, you are losing control because there is a little scratch on your car and it doesn’t matter what exactly have happened. You know she will “be there for you”, like where else she could go?! You have done so much for her, didn’t she knows that you love her?! – I’m sorry, the answer is NOT. You cannot do a lot for a while and in a moment you feel bored to leave your relationship to sail automatically. What is wrong? – love is endless care, not a constant that is waiting for you every night in a naughty mood, speechless, ready to take a command. If you really don’t want to lose your partner make the dedication your way of living. If not you better let her go now, and both live happily separated. It’s not taking a lot of time to write a love note, something from your soul, for example: What does she means to you?, sms, or a short call in the middle of the day to remind her you want her; to quote her favourite poem, song or book. Actually the only things you need for sure are an imagination and DESIRE!
To be continued...
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